Somewhere along the road

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April 2012

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“

How often, especially during the holidays, are children confronted with moments like this one: a relative comes to visit and the child’s parents say something like, “Now, give your uncle a hug and kiss.”

And when the child refuses to provide physical affection, or hesitates at the request, they sometimes hear things like, “You’re hurting your uncle’s feelings. It’s not polite. Now, go give him a hug and kiss.”

I think this insisting and cajoling of a child into showing physical affection towards an adult is incredibly dangerous. For me, it’s about the issue of when a child gives us the sense that they don’t want to be physically affectionate with someone, and our tendency to encourage the child, at that particular moment, to abandon their intuition and instinct. It’s a small step towards the erosion of that child’s sense of self-trust. At that moment, we are telling them, “Forget about how you feel. Do something that makes you feel uncertain and uncomfortable, so that someone else (an adult) can feel acknowledged and respected.”

”
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Now…Give Your Uncle A Kiss | The Current Conscience

I’ve honestly never connected these two issues before. But this is brilliant.

(via lookoutsideyourself)

Wow this…actually explains a lot of things.

(via bittercore)

I’ve never really connected that before, but it’s definitely an eye-opener.

(via bleed-peroxide)

Apr 30, 2012309 notes
#I... have never actually thought about it like this #wow
Apr 30, 201245,445 notes
#fffffff omg #...isn't that the reverse song of time though? #why do I even care
Apr 30, 201272 notes
Apr 30, 201262,588 notes
#;o;
Fandom Collision: My whole brain is crying. → fandomcollision.tumblr.com

dduane:

fandomcollision:

Guys, I just…. I’m having some feels over here. Some massive feels. Now, my blog is titled what it’s titled because I’ve found that a lot of the things I like separately eventually at some point cross paths with one another and I freak the fuck out.

Let’s start at the beginning…

Quick response:

It’s amazing, the connectedness, and it has unexpected delights. But specifically this:

I was saying to Peter some weeks back, “The one thing these kids have [by which at the time I meant the new young writers coming up into the writerly workplace] — that I envy them, that we didn’t have? Just knowing that they’re not alone.” Because both of us started becoming writers by ourselves, without any local support, without any dream that there might ever be any. Families laughed at the writing, or were annoyed by it, or didn’t want to know.

And fandom, too, was a late discovery for both of us. I had already been writing fanfic for the first twenty years of my life before I discovered that other people were doing that too and that the pastime had a name. Peter, much further out of the mainstream than I, didn’t go to conventions for ever so long because he thought you had to be published to go to one. By the time he found out otherwise, of course, he was published and it was too late: he would never be able to experience a con from the strictly fannish side.

Now we have a whole generation of new writers coming up who will never have known a time when there weren’t thousands of other people doing the same kind of writing, just for the joy of it, and who will always have known that there’s agreement for this kind of behavior — that it’s not just you, that you’re not crazy, that there’s worth in the work. Naturally not everyone will be able to make a living out of this kind of creation, and not everybody will necessarily keep doing it. Some loves cool, some passions burn low over time. But that’s probably not the real point here.The point is: new writers who love some genre to death don’t have to do it alone.

And at the fannish end: suddenly there are exponentially greater numbers of people to share the fun with, and you don’t have to spend huge amounts of money on travel and hotels to do it, or wait for fanzines to sporadically arrive in the mail. This is a golden age, and we should all just enjoy the hell out of it. Yes, there are cranks and trolls and idiots about, just as everyplace else in the real world. But they can be worked around. The rest of us can sit here and geek out in company, and share our joy in realtime.

Which is, I firmly believe, the best thing, and what it’s all about.

Apr 29, 201267 notes
#this is great
Apr 29, 20121,345 notes
#this
Apr 29, 2012120 notes
#d'aww
Apr 29, 2012533 notes
#eeeeeeeeeeee
Apr 29, 201269,556 notes
#this
Apr 28, 2012164,991 notes
#this is great #but I've never heard the term squish before #so pertinent to my own crush history :|
Apr 28, 201213,213 notes
#;o; #actually tearing up here
Apr 28, 20129,283 notes
#fffffff omg
“

I was doing an interview once, and this guy goes, “So you must be pretty psyched about all this ‘Slumdog Millionaire’ stuff?”

And I was like, “Um, yeah, I am.” I have no idea why though. I had nothing to do with that movie. It’s just some people that kind of look like me are in this movie that everyone loves, and winning Oscars and stuff.

And then I was like, “Whoa, whoa, whoa. Are white people just psyched all the time?” It’s, like, “‘Back to the Future’! That’s us! ‘Godfather’! That’s us! ‘Godfather Part II’! That’s us! ‘Departed’! That’s us! ‘Sunset Boulevard’! That’s us! ‘Citizen Kane’! That’s us! ‘Jaws’! That’s us! Every fucking movie but ‘Slumdog Millionaire’ and ‘Boyz n the Hood’ is us! We are white people! Suck our dicks!”

”
—Aziz Ansari, “Are White People Psyched All The Time?”  (via fuckyeahdesipeople)
Apr 28, 20128,750 notes
In which Zenjirou questions EVERYTHING;
  • Zenjirou: THAT GUY JUST F*CKING PUNCHED A DIGIMON!
  • Masaru: Yeah, so?
  • Zenjirou: WTF ONE F*CKING TURNS INTO A DIGIMON, THE OTHER MERGES WITH ONE?! WHO THE HELL ARE THESE PEOPLE?!
  • Takato & Takuya: We are -
  • Zenjirou: WHY ARE THERE SO MANY F*CKING GREYMONS?!
  • Kiriha: Mine's blue.
  • Zenjirou: WHY DOES EVERY LEADER IN THIS SHOW WEAR F*CKING GOGGLES?!
  • Masaru: I don't.
  • Zenjirou: WHY DID AKARI-KUN AND I FINALLY GET F*CKING XROS LOADERS?!
  • Toei: ?? Because we -
  • Zenjirou: WHY ARE THE OLD MAN'S EYES GLOWING F*CKING RED?!
  • Old Clockman: Because I'm -
  • Zenjirou: WHY IS ASTAMON CONTROLLING RYOUMA?
  • Ryouma: He's what?
  • Astamon: ASFLDGDO well SHIT.
  • Zenjirou: WHY ARE NENE'S BOOBS THE SIZE OF F*CKING MERVAMON'S ALL OF A SUDDEN?!
  • Nene: They are?
  • Mervamon: WHAT -
  • Zenjirou: WHAT THE F*CK IS WRONG WITH REN'S BANGS NO WONDER HE WEARS A HAT!
  • Ren: Hey!
  • Zenjirou: WHY THE F*CK IS TAIKI GIVING TAGIRU HIS GOGGLES?! DOESN'T HE HAVE HIS OWN?!
  • Tagiru: Because I'm going to be a Superstar!
  • Zenjirou: WHY THE F*CK IS THERE NO SATISFYING RESOLUTION AT THE END?!
  • Toei: Because we're -
  • Zenjirou: WHY -
  • Akari: SHUT UP!
Apr 28, 201276 notes
Apr 27, 201292 notes
#oh this show
Apr 27, 201217,795 notes
#fffffff omg
Apr 27, 2012245,018 notes
#oh #oh my
Apr 27, 201275 notes
#oh this kid
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transcouchnetwork:

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#hell yes
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